Recently, I had the displeasure of seeing someone I know go from a place of honor (for him), to basically losing everything and for no good reason other than self-sabotage. This person had come from a rough several years but with prayer and application, he was able to obtain a stable job, a nice place to live, and even found a girl who could see his potential and not his past. In all, the LORD was very good to him, and in a very short passing of time, this man’s life was on a beautiful path.

I can’t dwell on it and it’s really not even my business except he involved us by asking for prayer prior to, so it makes me sad because the LORD answered our prayers, and unlike some of us who are asked to endure much more before we receive, his blessings were almost instantaneous.

“Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.”Prov 16:18

I won’t go into details but suffice it to say, arrogance, pride, fear, and choice caused this beautiful gift from the LORD to decay bit by bit until he was left with nothing but his bad choices. To this day, he refuses to accept any blame.  Yes, indeed,  pride does come before the fall..

“Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed lest he fall” 1 Cor 10:12

Satan is sneaky and knows just how to infiltrate the arrogance of man: Let us never forget where we came from and how we got there. There isn’t enough talent in the world that can set you as high as favor from the LORD GOD, nor is there a desert so desolate of one who once knew the way and turned..

“So he answered and said to me: “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: ‘Not by might nor by power, but by My Spirit,’ Says the Lord of hosts.” Zech 4:6

Keep the WORD alive and living, and you will never stray..

“For the word of God is living and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the division of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.” Hebrews 4:12

Love, Destiny B/CYU

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SHAME: A painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of wrong or foolish behavior.

Many years ago when we had to hospitalize my Grandmother, she shared a room with a senile woman who every time we walked into the room would look right at us and say, “Be ashamed of yourselves“. I’m chuckling as I write this but at the time, she scared the holy hell out me. I hated going to the convalescent hospital; the smell, the sounds, the people, everything about it made me physically sick but my mother would force me to go, saying things like, “This might be his/her last day..” Anyway, the guilt trip always worked, and I survived.

As I was praying today, I asked the LORD not to let HIS people feel humiliated or ashamed for their faith. I love faith and I love to see it manifest in people’s lives. My husband and I consider ourselves to be philanthropists, and accordingly, there are many times that I wish I could cut short trials & tribulations of those around me out of fear that they may give up, but I know that each one is called and given a measure of faith in order to accomplish their tasks; and my job isn’t to see it through, but to encourage those who are seeking.

“But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him” Heb 11:6

Without faith, you will never be victorious. Without faith, you cannot please GOD – And to have it, you must walk by what you know to be true inside (which can be swayed if you allow it).

In a world which operates in fleeting trends and shifting tangibility, it’s easy to feel lost and to question your way, but blame and shame have no place in your heart. If you tried something and it didn’t work, it may have been timing. If you try it again, approach it with today’s perspective. Always remember that there are many avenues to accomplish a thing so be wise, open, diligent, and determined..

“11 Cast your bread upon the waters, for you will find it after many days.
2 Give a serving to seven, and also to eight, for you do not know what evil will be on the earth.
3 If the clouds are full of rain, they empty themselves upon the earth;
And if a tree falls to the south or the north, in the place where the tree falls, there it shall lie. 4 He who observes the wind will not sow, and he who regards the clouds will not reap.
5 As you do not know what is the way of the wind, or how the bones grow in the womb of her who is with child, so you do not know the works of God who makes everything.
6 In the morning sow your seed, and in the evening do not withhold your hand;
For you do not know which will prosper, either this or that, or whether both alike will be good.” Eccl 11:1-6


9 Then the Lord God called to Adam and said to him, “Where are you?”
10 So he said, “ I heard Your voice in the garden, and I was afraid because I was naked; and I hid myself.”
11 And He said, “Who told you that you were naked? Have you eaten from the tree of which I commanded you that you should not eat?” Genesis 3:9-11

By what or whose standards do we judge ourselves? If by the world, we are already defeated, and if by GOD, then we are renewed and washed clean day by day.

The world judges by its decaying standards. The world is full of hypocrites who cannot so much as discern the sign of the times; how then can they even know the handy works of  GREAT GOD JEHOVAH in you?! 

“16 Then the Pharisees and Sadducees came, and testing Him asked that He would show them a sign from heaven. 2 He answered and said to them, “When it is evening you say, ‘It will be fair weather, for the sky is red’; 3 and in the morning, ‘It will be foul weather today, for the sky is red and threatening.’ Hypocrites! You know how to discern the face of the sky, but you cannot discern the signs of the times.” Matt 16:1-3

Dear BOLD thing, what you are is a lamp not to be hidden under the weight of the world, but rather to shine so bright that people either run to you or repel away. Either way, it is established in the word of GOD and when you resolve to know that earthly measures used to judge a man and his worth are worthless, you will be set free.

“31 Then Jesus said to those Jews who believed Him, “If you abide in My word, you are My disciples indeed. 32 And you shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.” John 8:31-32



54 “Sing, O barren, you who have not borne!
Break forth into singing, and cry aloud, you who have not labored with child!
For more are the children of the desolate than the children of the married woman,” says the Lord.

2 “Enlarge the place of your tent, and let them stretch out the curtains of your dwellings; Do not spare; lengthen your cords, and strengthen your stakes.
3 For you shall expand to the right and to the left, and your descendants will inherit the nations, and make the desolate cities inhabited.

4 “Do not fear, for you will not be ashamed; neither be disgraced, for you will not be put to shame; for you will forget the shame of your youth, and will not remember the reproach of your widowhood anymore. 5 For your Maker is your husband, The Lord of hosts is His name; and your Redeemer is the Holy One of Israel; He is called the God of the whole earth. Isaiah 54:1-5

Yes, indeed, dear warrior, you will never be put to shame by your GOD. And before anyone writes to me insinuating that I’m saying, no one needs shame, I’m referring to the body of CHRIST not judging themselves according to the world’s standards.

“For the Scripture says, “Whoever believes on Him will not be put to shame.” Romans 10:11

Shame on those who lie, steal, and cheat to get ahead. Shame on those who falsely accuse GOD’S people.

“May the arrogant be ashamed, for they subvert me with a lie; but I shall meditate on Your precepts.” Psalm 119:78

Until next time,
March forward.
Love Destiny/CYU

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Just a quick note

Hi Warriors,
This morning, the LORD would have me remind you to be wise in and with your charitable deeds: A hand up is a lot different than a hand out.
In these coming days you will need to be very discerning as to when & where you are to give of your time, your resources, and your gifts..

“He who walks with wise men will be wise, but the companion of fools will be destroyed.” Proverbs 13:20

Be BOLD and wise for Jesus!
Love, Destiny/CYU


As believers of CHRIST, we are going from glory to glory. As followers of JESUS, we are on a victory march knowing that as we walk our ordained steps, we arrive at the right place, at the right time, for the right reasons.

“The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and HE delights in his way.”
Ps 37:23
“A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps.”
Prov 16:9

I was recently taken aback when someone well known in the music industry attempted to peddle their services based on yesterday’s feats (achievements, deeds, exploits, accomplishments). I tried to smooth it over by telling myself that they were just proud of their past, but it soon became obvious that this person and I would not be a compatible match. While we are to learn from the past, we must never dwell there if we want to press forward and into the office of our High Calling. 

“12 Not that I have already attained, or am already perfected; but I press on, that I may lay hold of that for which Christ Jesus has also laid hold of me. 13 Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, 14 I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.” Phil 3:12-14

We are living in a very progressive world full of momentum, and we must be malleable and wise if we want to keep in step with the Holy Spirit’s forward movement. We must be wiser than the serpent (who can only dig up old bones of yesterday) if we are to obtain our promised land.  Dear warrior, do not faint at the sight of giants; your steps are watched over and your way is protected: The LORD will not lead you astray (Numbers 13-14).

The associations that I want to make are with forward thinkers who are BOLD enough to be unique, HUMBLE enough to know from where their abilities come, and BRAVE enough to withstand the inevitable onslaught that comes whenever one challenges the ‘status quo’.

Until next time,
Walk with me along the victory path 🐾
Love, Destiny/ CYU

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I’ve asked you this before but it’s on my mind again tonight: So, I ask you, “What is better, the beginning or the end of a thing?  And what about the middle (the “Now”), does it or does it not have merit (worthiness)?

“The end of a thing is better than its beginning; the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.” Eccl 7:8

Uh huh! Your dreams are not dead and the clock ticks at the LORD’S pace, not yours.
All things have a proper time and place so while you’re working towards your goal and waiting for that door to open, why not enjoy & partake of the simple pleasures of your “Now” (AKA: the Middle) ?!

I can tell you that I used to be afraid to enjoy myself because I thought if I was too happy, the LORD would forget to answer my ongoing request; I figured, if I wallowed in self-pity and self-denial it would move HIM to work  quicker on my behalf. LOL, it didn’t!!

It’s funny now, but in all honesty, being me is a very distracting thing. The LORD knows that I am not programmed to sit still. HE also knows that I dislike sleep because I do not want to miss things. But more than anything, I hate, hate, hate, to feel like I’m wasting time. Funny thing about time is that it moves at its designated pace whether or not we play a part or partake. Let me comfort you with this truth because some of us stress more than others when it comes to achieving our goals in a “timely” fashion: Faith has an amazing way of leveling the playing field where all things are easy and the spoils are yours for the taking!
I could give you MIGHTY examples but I want you to ponder this for your life and how it can and will apply if you do not lose heart. I speak what I know to be true because only what I receive (go through/overcome) can I truly give back to you. So, stand still and see that the battle is not yours unless you make it so.

“And Moses said to the people, “Do not be afraid. Stand still, and see the salvation of the Lord, which He will accomplish for you today. For the Egyptians whom you see today, you shall see again no more forever.” Exodus 14:13

As Moses said to the people, I say to you, ‘In a moment’s wink, the mountain that is standing in your way will be the victory of your testimony.’

Until next time,
Chill out and enjoy your now 😘
Love DestinyB/CYU

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