Hi Warrior,
This song, SHHH, is an “impromptu” recording from our jam session the other night. I wrote it not based on prurient interests or about my husband , but because I see and hear things: Husbands too busy or distracted to tend to their mate’s needs (BTW, someone else is always willing), and wives so busy bickering and complaining, they fail to notice that they are no longer heard-And so begins the disconnect.

Remember the flame that once was? It didn’t go out on its own. Reignite the passion and everything else will fall into place. If you don’t feel a flame, then pray for an ember. And if you don’t feel like praying for an ember, then pray in the Spirit (which you should do anyway) because HE is your Counselor, your Mighty Advocate, and as such, will always lead you towards the perfect will of GOD for your life.

10 Then He arose from there and came to the region of Judea by the other side of the Jordan. And multitudes gathered to Him again, and as He was accustomed, He taught them again. 2 The Pharisees came and asked Him, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” testing Him. 3 And He answered and said to them, “What did Moses command you?” 4 They said, “Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce, and to dismiss her.” 5 And Jesus answered and said to them, “Because of the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. 6 But from the beginning of the creation, God ‘made them male and female.’ 7 ‘For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, 8 and the two shall become one flesh’; so then they are no longer two, but one flesh. 9 Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate.” Mark 10:1-9

I know what it feels like to want to quit, and the minute your mind starts going down that path, guess who’s right there with you to push it along?  I’ve said many times that you can justify any wrong with little effort, but fact still remains, The LORD GOD hates divorce:

“For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce, for it covers one’s garment with violence,” Says the Lord of hosts. “Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously.” Malachi 2:16

Dear lovely, I’m certainly not encouraging anyone to remain in an abusive or adulteress  situation, but rather, I am speaking to married couples who have just grown weary in love: There’s nothing better on the other side because after the newness of lust dissipates, what’s left are the same ancient-old issues of humanity. Oh yes indeed, there’s nothing new under the sun..

“8 All things are full of labor; man cannot express it. The eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor the ear filled with hearing. 9 That which has been is what will be, that which is done is what will be done, and there is nothing new under the sun.”  Ecclesiastes 1:8-9

HERE’S MY NUGGET TO YOU: Do not become separated; mind, spirit, soul, or physical, for if so, by one, each, you may be lost and not found-And how sad is that!

Until next time,
Stir the fire a little 🔥
Love, DestinyB /CYU

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“Do not curse the king, even in your thought; do not curse the rich, even in your bedroom; for a bird of the air may carry your voice, and a bird in flight may tell the matter.”  Ecclesiastes 10:20

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Be careful lovelies, not to utter things of little to no value. In my industry of entertainment, people are so busy bashing, and stomping, and accusing, that they have become ABSOLUTELY FRUITLESS: A bad tree cannot bear good fruit, but, a good tree can go bad! While I am a considerate listener, I refuse to ever be drawn into another’s drama. I hate gossip, I hate backbiting, I hate backstabbers, and LORD knows, I loathe a busybody! If you are busy working out your own salvation with “fear and trembling” you will not have time to notice (or care) what anyone else is doing.

“12 Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling; 13 for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure.
14 Do all things without complaining and disputing, 15 that you may become blameless and harmless, children of God without fault in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, 16 holding fast the word of life, so that I may rejoice in the day of Christ that I have not run in vain or labored in vain.” Philippians 2:12-16

I am a nice girl, a fun girl, a loyal girl, but I will not be drawn into anything that requires me to break my prestigious rank. We are warriors in the Army of JESUS and set above the standards of the world – Soooo, put a smile in your heart and wear it where all can see it! Remember, LOVE covers (blankets) a multitude of ill will ツ 

Have a beautiful week!
Love, DestinyB / CYU

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